To take action : 15–30 min together · Depending on your devices and accounts
Your kid is online. Do you know what they're exposed to?
Appropriate settings and an open conversation with your child.
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Fictional example: an everyday situation
A child receives an uncomfortable message in a game and tells a trusted adult. Together, they block the contact and review who can send messages.
The problem
Games, videos and messaging can support friendship and learning. They can also expose a child to unwanted contacts, bullying, unwanted purchases or unsuitable content.
Protections differ by service and age. No filter replaces someone a child can talk to without fear of being blamed.
What to do now
Step 1: Understand their activities
Ask which games and apps the child uses, with whom and why. Check the service’s age rules together. Choose settings appropriate to their maturity and explain the purpose.
Step 2: Configure access together
Review Screen Time on Apple devices, Family Link on Android or console family settings. Limit purchases, unknown contacts and public information as appropriate. Check that settings apply to the correct account and the devices actually used.
Step 3: Choose what stays private
Discuss photos, school, home address and location. Content sent to one person can be reshared. Ask your child before posting about them, in an age-appropriate way.
Step 4: Prepare a response
Agree on a trusted adult to contact. For bullying, keep useful records, use blocking and reporting tools and seek help. Do not redistribute intimate images as evidence; ask a qualified support service how to proceed.
In France, 3018, run by e-Enfance, supports young people and families experiencing online abuse. For immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Outside France, use a support service appropriate to your country.
Go further
Evolving protections
Review settings together when a new device or service is introduced. The aim is to develop independence and the ability to seek help over time.
Automated recommendations
Feeds are personalized using signals such as interactions. Learn to use “Not interested”, blocking and recommendation settings where offered. These controls may reduce exposure without guaranteeing problematic content will never return.
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